The book of Proverbs is a guide for pursuing godly wisdom in our daily lives. In this four-week study, we will read a selection of topical proverbs covering different aspects of wisdom, from how to interact with our friends, families, and neighbors, to fearing God and keeping His commands. No matter the subject, these proverbs urge us to wrestle with and reflect on our own response to them. To help you better engage with the proverbs in this reading plan, we have provided you with a short introduction and reflection questions for each day.
Our words matter. James 3:9–10 says, “With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in God’s likeness. Blessing and cursing come out of the same mouth. My brothers and sisters, these things should not be this way.” It is likely that few of us spend much time considering how we use our words throughout the course of a day. Use this day to pay careful attention to your words, and see what wisdom these proverbs have for you.
Reflection Questions:
Why do our words carry so much weight? What is it about the way God made us that gives power to words?
Proverbs 18:21 says our words can give life and take life. They can bring light or add darkness. How have you given light and life with your words? How have you spoken death and darkness?
Why do you think “a gentle answer turns away anger” (Proverbs 15:1)? How can you provide gentle answers to people in your life?
One of my main love languages is words of affirmation, so I definitely know how powerful words can be. I pray that I would use my words to speak life into people’s lives.
Sarcasm. It’s such an accepted and common thing and it’s often used to add humor to a conversation. Yet, I find that it is often hurtful. It’s a fine line… I struggle with being sarcastic to my husband which is ultimately not life-giving speech, even if it is funny.
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Psalm 19:14 Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart ❤️ Be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my strength and my Redeemer.
I think one of the most impactful ways I use my words is as a parent. The words I choose can so easily give life or death to my children. A harsh answer breaks their spirit. A gentle answer shows grace and love and helps them grow. I am incredibly convicted about how often and all too easily I don’t respond the way I should. Lord, please give me the grace to show my kids your love through my words and actions. Help my attitude to reflect Your heart toward them. And when I do make mistakes, please help me swallow my pride and admit those mistakes to my kids, seeking their forgiveness. Help me be an example to them that leads them to find life in You.
Say what you mean without being mean! Honor the absent! Give people a pass. My journey the last few years. Coming out this side of grace giving, listening and calling for God in the pause has given me peace I could never have imagined despite life’s circumstances. Thank you Father!
If God’s spoken Word created everything from nothing then, our words have power b/c we are made in His image.