After completing your daily reading, come back to chat with fellow Bible readers about any reflections you have on the proverbs, introduction, or questions from today.
In Mere Christianity, C. S. Lewis wrote, “Pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind.” The wise person understands the battle between humility and pride is always raging in our hearts. These proverbs help us understand that tension and how to approach life with humble confidence.
Reflection Questions:
Who in your life models humility well, and how do you see them expressing humility in their actions?
Where in your life does pride have its strongest hold?
How do you see the Holy Spirit working to cultivate humility in you?
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My husband is the most humble person I know. He handles every task with grace. He can do almost anything and never boasts or pats himself on the back. If I am in a poor mood and begin speaking low he will gently say “don’t judge.” In the most calm voice. A constant reminder of Gods word and grace. I never feel judged in my moments of weakness, just guided.
My husband displays humility by making every person he interacts with, from colleagues to the person behind Tim Hortons Coffee shop, feel extremely special, like they are the only person in the room and what they say matters. I am so lucky to have such a close display in my life. Pride comes up for me mostly in parenting and motherhood, and towards my husband. I am quick to be hostile and prideful when I feel my judgement is being challenged. It is also prideful to compare myself to other moms, as it is undermining everything God is doing for me.
I feel the Holy Spirit calling me to surrender any burdens and control to him, because it is even prideful for me to think all the weight falls on me.
My pride stops me from asking for help when I need it. Lord let me be humble and ask for help when I need it
Humility with confidence is a careful balance I am trying to learn. I try to set aside my pride and serve Him with a humble heart. But at times He and others ask for confidence in that humility. To help lead as a servant.
Confidence is not something bad to avoid. I need to work and learn to embrace more confidence.
I see Holy Spirit working to cultivate humility in you, in my work. I consider myself pretty successful in my career; I’ve accomplished all the things I wanted to accomplish thus. For the longest time, especially when I was in the military, I attributed all of that to myself and everything I did. Not really understanding that everything I have, that I am, the things that I am able to accomplish, are because of God. And the things that have gone wrong in my career, just like in my life, are because I have gone against what God wanted me to do. And as I’ve grown older, especially with my current job, this was a little different for this job. I prayed a lot. I remember praying to God to put me into this job only if it is where he wanted me to be, and if he thought I could do it. I know I have the skills, but something in me stirred that I have an opportunity, in everything I do and everywhere I go, to potentially share the gospel with others. And so the spirit has been working and bringing humility to what I accomplish— that everything I do and everything that I am successful in, it is simply because of the grace of God.
Pride is sneaky and deceptive. Do we easily see our pridefulness? Lord help my spirit remain humble and surrendered. May I have an open mind and heart today to see the arrogance I need to repent of.
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Where in my life does pride have a strongest hold?
For me, it is my lack of submission to God and always trying to do things myself without coming to God first.
I have been thinking on these verses and the CS Lewis quote. Lots to ponder and consider and I think I need to really fo some honest reflection on the ways Pride shows itself in my life.
Lord, work in my heart and reveal to me all that is fueled by pride, self importance, independence from you and control. Lead me in your ways O Lord and change my heart. ❤️
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I struggle with pride in many areas, but the one being highlighted for me today is pridefulness in doubting the Lord and becoming reliant on self. The times when I’ve waited on the Lord, but He was taking too long so I began to doubt and take control of things – elevated self. In seasons when sin is damaging my marriage and I feel like we’re too far gone for the Lord to transform – elevated self. (I know we’re never too far gone).
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To be very honest and vulnerable, I have to be careful when sharing with you, Shes, as my pride can leave me desiring to sound smart, wise, and collect replies like ‘likes’ on socials. That’s not what this space is for, so I tend not to post as a means of avoiding that temptation and honoring this sacred space.
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As I was researching ‘doubt as pride’ this morning I read…
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“Pride and self-doubt are really two sides of the same coin. One believes that we know better than God does, the other believes that he isn’t good or powerful enough to change us. Neither makes much of God, effectively bringing him down below us. The prideful and the self-doubters both believe they’re better than God, they just show it in different ways.”
Thank you, Kelly – you’ve given me a lot to think about in your last paragraph. ❤️
It makes me think also, of Abraham taking matters into his own hands too before Isaac came along. We can learn a lot in His word, can’t we? (I know I can!)
I love that, Cindy. I sometimes cry at the thought of his tender and giving heart, others I worry about his safety. But, at the end of it all, he is always in God’s hands, I tell myself. I’m happy you have a good one, too.
Whoops, it posted yesterday before I finished, as I was trying to click “return” and add spaces for the three questions. #2, As I age, I struggle with many things, health, pain, memory, but one thing I need to let go is my vanity and how I compare to others. Trying to age gracefully is something I need to work on. #3 the Holy Spirit has been placing others in my path to help and guide. It is now my turn to be kind, wise and gentle and pass along God’s grace to others, may he give me what I need and allow me to be a light for him. amen.
I’m with you, letting go of my vanity. I don’t compare so much with others rather than my previous self.
Our sweet speech therapist for my oldest, Ms. Sarah. A woman of the church who has become a role model.
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I think the person who shows humility is my sister, she is always putting others first and going out of her way to help others. My pride takes hold and I question whether its really me that needs to do that errand, but my sister just does it! Karen at church, always talks kindly to others and gives them time to talk (she’s a role model for me!). I come away feeling blessed and calm to have her in my life and the daunting realisation that I did not ask her questions about her own life, I have a lot to learn.
I also show pride in my homelife. My husband built our home after many years of sacrificing the nice things in our relationship. I am proud of his achievements but it’s a careful balancing act because I don’t want to be boastful. I am also useless at asking for help so pride features heavily there aswell, I would rather struggle on and be a broken soul by the end. There is a lot I am praying to God to help me with, this list is growing by the second!
Who in your life models humility well, and how do you see them expressing humility in their actions? My Mom on the daily shows her humility by doing whatever needs to be done and not even being asked to do it no matter the task or challenge. She never asks for a thank you and she deserves all thanks!!!
Where in your life does pride have its strongest hold?
Honestly in whatever craft I do I want the head pats. I like showing off my work. Not completely sure if that’s the strongest hold Pride has on me but it’s my first thought.
How do you see the Holy Spirit working to cultivate humility in you? Any time pride rears its head in many parts of my life, it gets slapped down. Something happens to remind me to humble myself!
I honestly think of quite a few individuals from church, who if lucky can catch sight of them restocking the chair backs with pens, welcome cards, picking up trash left behind, and doing countless other acts of service without the need for recognition of their service. The gentlemen who serve as security during our Sunday and Wednesday services because they felt the call to fill a need.
Pride tends to have its strong hold in the need to be in control of situations, feeling needed or like I am contributing to the family …
I have been spending time in prayer, asking God to guide my steps to be more like Him through service, love, and humility.
I honestly appreciate every one of you She’s. I found She Reads Truth just recently and feel there is a reason for the timing … God’s timing is everything. I found myself (like others) reading through the comments and nodding in agreement with what was said. Praying for everyone
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So many great comments this morning! When I read the verses I immediately thought “oh this is not for me, I’m not prideful” then I read all of your comments and thought…well maybe I am just a little. Lord help me to be more humble and less prideful in all areas of my life. Bless each of these sisters here! Have a wonderful weekend everyone.
1.The person who exhibits humility very well in my life is my dad. He had a hard life. His dad passed away in a sudden bombing in the Vietnam war. My dad was only a few months old baby then and grandma took him and ran and dealt with grief at 23 years old, a young widow. She lost her memories of that time and didn’t remember my dad’s birthday, it wiped out (memory block to deal with trauma). But my dad has always been the model of being kind, humble, serving, and grateful type for another day of life. When I came to Canada for university and I remember another humble man from church, he would come to university residences to pick up students to go to church, how I was invited is a miracle from God, four of us in a small car of his. He was always so kind and patient when I was not ready and came out late. I missed home dearly during those early years away, but God took me to his church in this small town through this humble man who I still kept in touch. And Andrew Wommack, my early day teacher and mentor of faith to me, he is the founder of Charis Bible College in Colorado Springs, how God took me to his teachings on the abyss of youtube is another divine leading. Another miracle to heal me from the religious mindset. Andrew is just like my dad. Humble, kind, same humor, same ranching farming style, and one of the finest teachers with a humble character to go with. 2. Pride used to have a strong hold in my corporate career, job title, which the Lord revealed to me last year through a testing trial, I have since let that go. What a ton of weight lifted off once that revelation was given. I am no longer slave to that. Corporate ladder was a snare that I got sucked into. I also notice pride in my conversations with my husband, I could be sassy to him lol. 3. The Holy Spirit would convict me immediately, like a slash in my heart. Instant conviction that hurts! I used to wrestle with some reasoning first, but I learnt now it is futile and foolish. I will quickly surrender and come to my husband asap to apologize, telling him what I said was unkind and unnecessary, and to give him a big bear hug of reconciliation. Thankfully my husband is quick to forgive too upon my waving the white flag. He never played hard to get. Making up is simple for us. Admitting I was wrong is easier now with the help of God’s conviction. It can get hard if we fall into the trap of overthinking and self justifying. No need for that. I follow the KISS method (Keep It Simple Sweetie). Also later, I would pray for my husband to have a heart of understanding and wisdom. He could get tunnel vision and refused a bigger picture. Being of one mind is what we are called to be (Philippians 2:2 “Complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind”). Need to pray this verse more now that I think about it. Praise God for His conviction, guidance and kindness upon me. Where would we be without Him? I am so thankful for the Holy Spirit who is the constant Teacher and Comforter to me. He prompts me to act and say things that can keep us from disasters. Lean to Him. Don’t ignore the still small voice. Don’t harden our hearts. Be blessed dear sisters.
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Thank you for sharing this Mercy, especially the thoughts about your husband. It took me a while to get it. The Holy Spirit worked wonders on my heart, I am grateful for His constant guidance.
As I’m reading all the responses to today’s questions I see myself in so many when they are talking about pride. It is making me look at myself and know I need God to help with this. Thank you to all who have posted and been helped with this aha moment for me. God bless all of you as we continue to be in His word through SRT
One of the VPs I support at work is the most humble person I ever met. He is righteous in all of his decisions and work habits. When I am around him I just feel God’s presence in his mannerisms and caring for other people. He mentors many employees and is a man of God. I love how many are sharing their husbands are like this! What a blessing. Thank you for praying for our ladies Bible study. It went fine despite my nervousness and I did my best. Next time I will provide pens and tissues in the room but other than that the conversations were sweet and so were all the ladies.
I’m so glad for you! They were all probably nervous as far as new group, new people..all that! I am praying you will want to lead more, and your own group! It has been really fun to lead and remembering how God has had this planned all along!
Thanks Rhonda, I love how you’ve grown in sharing your faith and how courageous you are with all you do for others in the community!
That’s great to hear! It must have been impactful if you needed tissues and pens! ❤
For me the verse that stands out today is Proverbs 11:2 which in the NIV reads “When pride comes, then disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” The link I see her is that when you are proud/think you already have it all figured out, etc you are less likely to seek out the input of others (or more importantly God). When you recognize your own limitations and come before God and ask for HIS direction, God tells us in his word he will guide us/provide us what we need to decide the next steps
I see God cultivating humility in me by putting me in experiences where I don’t feel fully equipped with the wisdom to know what the right answer is/how to proceed (whether at home with my children or at work.) Just yesterday at work I had someone more junior then me, who I am partially responsible for overseeing come to me, with a serious issue. As they started to talk I quickly realized that I was not at all certain how best to respond/how to support them/advise them. I found myself offering a quick silent prayer to God as I listened to them talk to please give me wisdom in this moment. I think when I’m in a familiar environment with things that I have done before its possible to slip into a trip of thinking “I got this.” On the other hand being in situations where I feel stretched and outside my comfort zone help me to be humble because it forces me to rely on God for direction.
This so good! I know I’m not so good at teaching…but stepping in action and relying on God IS what is needed!! If I thought I could do it on my own, that leads to pride in myself! Which is a slippery soap! I always pray..Lord YOU lead me, not me! It always leads to amazing, unbelievable results!!
For me pride rears its ugly head when I think that my way is the only and best way to do something. An old saying came to mind this week as I was asked to do something. It was suggested to do it a certain way, which is not how I would have done it, but I went along and did it the way it was suggested. It worked out! “There’s more than 1 way to skin a cat.” Praise report, I made it to California and back with minimal pain. Thank you for your prayers❤️
That’s great praise on your pain! And yes, I always remind my husband that we can do things differently with the same result!! So good!
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Wow praise God. Thank you for the update sister.
I struggle with my pride the most when it comes to asking others for help! Oftentimes, my pride will get in the way of an easy solution. The Holy Spirit is working on my heart by allowing me to slow down and take the time to process what I can do to be better!
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Ah yes, the subject of pride! I think I would have to say that the place pride has a stronghold in my life is the need to always be right, or for everyone to do things my way.
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I feel like God is constantly reprimanding me for my pride, just recently once again – pride reared it’s ugly head! It was being arranged to have a care basket put together for a member of our church who recently lost her elderly mom. It wasn’t being done the way I would have done it, and instead of letting it go – I just had to open my mouth and say how I thought it should be done. The sweet gal with whom I was speaking, immediately changed it to “my way” and almost as immediately – I felt so convicted by the Holy Spirit. I SO wished I had kept my mouth shut!! But nope, I let pride dictate to me. I left feeling terrible and very sorry – pleading with the Lord to cause me to stop, think and pray the next time I find myself in this situation.
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My pride and mouth has gotten me into more trouble!
Father God, please – help me not to be so prideful that I fail to sin that sin in my life. Let me follow the humble example of Jesus who willingly, humbly gave His life for me.
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@Donna Wolcott – I am so sorry that your son is not healing well. Continued prayers for his healing and wisdom for the thoracic team to know how to proceed forward.
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Happy Friday sweet she’s!
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Missing some familiar names:
MICHELLE
SARAH
TAYLOR
ERB
CATHY MCVEY
GRAMMIE SUE…Just to name a few that come quickly to mind.
My friend, Shari, has great humility. She is the example I should follow.
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I didn’t think pride was one of my vices, really, but someone pointed out this week that maybe it is. Hmmm…
I meant to add all of your comments are such a blessing! Keep sharing!
The first person I thought of who displays humility is my sweet friend G. I’ve always have said she’s the most selfLESS only child I know. Happy Friday. Out of time again. Love you all SO much!
Pride! It is a struggle! The statement from today “ the battle between humility and pride is always raging in our hearts“ grips me! It is a profound reminder of what is happening in my heart.
In many of the verses, what kept popping up to me was that “humility comes before honor”. And CS Lewis‘s statement “pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind“.
This is the exact reason why Jesus’s sacrifice on the cross is so precious, and thinking of it humbles me. We don’t deserve it, but God did it anyway because his love for us is so great!
Reading the comments and digging a little deeper brings “Aha!” moments throughout each reading plan.
The kind of pride that stems from self-righteousness or conceit is sin, however, and God hates it because it is a hindrance to seeking Him. -GotQuestions
I had not considered how pride is hinders a strong, personal relationship with God.
Who in my life models humility well? What a joyous thing to contemplate! I wonder how they view their own behavior? They probably wouldn’t consider themselves a model!
Hit post before finishing…. He makes it a priority to visit the elderly, is generous with our resources, listens well and admits when he’s wrong. He truly dislikes any attention given to him. I could say more but he would hate that I even said this much.! He hasn’t always been this way. He intimately knows the grace of forgiveness he has received from Christ. I’m blessed to be his wife.
When I met my husband I was floored by his humility! I hadn’t met someone like him in all my relationships. He just wasn’t the typical guy I went for maybe, but even in the men I had been around. He had values of old- respecting his elders, kindness to everyone, and when he became Chief of the Fire department he would scrub floors and cleanup with the rest of them. He never saw himself above them or others. And when I would try to pick fights with him, he would always say “we are on the same team!” (which would make me roll my eyes.) Everyone I would meet would say “oh, he is the NICEST guy!) So yes, he exuded humbleness. Now though, (is it older age) he seems to be shorter in dealing with people and me! lol. My sister is also the most humble and giving person I know!
In myself…I’m probably all over the map in pride! It’s a sneaky little thing, and big in my life. I think I’m right about everything and do/know the best approach. If not- It’s not something I want to do! lol. I have tried to lay down my pride in my marriage and just do all I can to make it better. When I show mercy as I spoke of yesterday it goes so much better, but my pride wants me to have the last word.
Lord, help us lay it down to you. To be humble, kind, and think of others before ourselves! In a world where we are to be proud of our achievements and live are truth, and pride is actually a theme of wrong living, let us look to your humble servant! He washed the yucky feet of disciples. He went to those in need, and showed them undeserving love and care. Let us humble ourselves today and on, and showing Jesus to those around us. Especially the hard place- our families!
Thank you for your Mercy and Grace for all of us even though we are sinners and full of fleshy desires and pride. Keep sanctifying us to be Holy as you are Holy. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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Though I didn’t originally think of it, you and others have mentioned the idea of “needing to be right” as a manifestation of pride and that hits home to me.
I echo the words of your prayer at end of your comment. Thanks for sharing.
What a beautiful story ❤️. You are also a model of great humility to me too. Thank you Rhonda. Hugs and love.
I love when the word aligns exactly where I need it to
I love when we get the opportunity to praise others. Like SUZANNE TINSLEY my husband Doug is the first example of someone who walks humbly before God and others.He quietly serves many by lending a helping hand whenever he sees a need.(Countless times we have stopped to help people in trouble on the road sometimes even taking them home if warranted ) He puts himself last
Danielle, that opened my eyes as I elderly and live alone and take pride in being able to do things that I should not, like climbing ladders and moving heavy objects.
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Pride is where the HS has had to do most of His work on my heart, I would say. Ten years ago, if you asked me if I was a prideful person, I would have confidently said no way! But life and maturity have revealed a lot of the things already mentioned here in the comments which point to pride: being in control, not accepting criticism, thinking I know best, judging others. I had never thought of those things as prideful before and instead focused on the parable in the Bible showing the prideful man giving his money in church and making a big scene about it. But pride comes in lots of different forms, I learned. And the quiet, haughty heart kind of pride can be the worst (at least for me) because it is hidden or covered up. My husband was the first to point out to me my pride and haughtiness, and I did not like it one bit! I immediately went to seeing the plank in his eye over the speck in my own. But slowly, the HS worked on me and revealed more and more areas where he (the hub) was right. Darn it! Most people who know me would not think of me this way. They would probably say that I am very confident, capable, in control, a leader, etc. BUT, underneath that I started to see that I was judgy of others work ethic, thought I was the only one who could do things the right way, didn’t need anyone to help me because I had it, etc. All of these are areas of pride that God has been working on in my own life.
A comment about marriage: my marriage is not perfect (ha, as if there is such a thing!) and sometimes I wonder why it is so hard. But, through my marriage I have become a better person. Your spouse can see things and say things that no one else can. And once I started to get over myself and listen to what was being said to me and praying that God would “search my heart and reveal any offensive way in me,” things started to change in me and my marriage. Not that everything a spouse says is true, but my husband loves God and I love God, so when things come out because we are married to each other, I have learned to bring it to the Lord and often, my husband is right and I do need to allow God to work on that part of me.
This is so good Laura! TY
Yes, yes. I am discovering many of the same sneaky ways pride has infiltrated my thoughts…and words. Praying daily to “stay in my lane” when observing others in order not to let my “critiques” take hold.
Oh Yes to that as well!! STAY.In MY Lane! Repeat, repeat.
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❤️ Love this Laura.
So much to consider …CS Lewis … “It is the complete anti-God state of mind”…..wow..this is something that I need to reflect on a few days…to truly understand pride verses humility….sometimes it is easy to confuse the two. Lord, help me to see more clearly
Lord, teach me so that I may know when pride is and may I know it before I stumble and make others stumble.
Ah yes, the Holy Spirit is working in me today! First struggling with the the 2nd question, thinking I’m not a prideful person…then reading through all of your thoughtful insights, the light comes on! Wanting to be in control, struggling with accepting criticism, etc. So many things to pray on! Thank you, ladies.
My husband comes to mind first; he serves the poor in the community in many ways, so selfless.
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As I first read this, I glossed over the question about where pride has a stronghold. Not me! Then I asked God to show me. Bad idea! Ha ha! Pride mostly has a stronghold in my marriage – yesterday I said I didn’t blame my husband or his ADHD but actually I do. I stand in a place of pride thinking, this is all your fault. Ouch! I am also prideful at work, thinking my way of teaching is better than some others which allows me to feel superior, and if I’m being really honest, has put a wedge between myself and a colleague. Ouch again! Even with my daughter when she procrastinates and doesn’t do things the way I want them done, I can judge her. I realized today that pride can be elusive, it’s not like I’m bragging about my house and cars and the millions I make (I don’t, lol I’m a teacher), but I am so prideful in many, many areas. Thank you Holy Spirit for opening my eyes to this today. Continue to work in me to root out the prideful ways in me, and forgive me of my sins. Amen.
Oh yes, it sneaks up on us. Your words brought some things to the forefront of my own thoughts & deeds. Ouch!
Yes, same!
Thank you Tami!
Thank you for sharing. God used your statement to open my eyes and heart to what I take for granted!
Pride does seem to be the root of many other sins. Ouch. Thanks Tami, and CS Lewis. :)
Oh my! You gave me so much to think about regarding ADHD and blaming. One can be so blind to their own fault. Open the eyes of my heart Lord. Let me see.
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“Pride leads to every other vice“
The more I think about it, the more connections I’m seeing. If asked, I would tell you I’m not a prideful person… is denial the first indicator? Much to ponder.
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MERCY good comment ❤️ And thank you, but the award for request tracking goes to KELLY (NEO) ❤️❤️ I try to note the requests as I see them, but Kelly’s follow up is amazing.
AZ WALKER praying for you in this leadership role ❤️
CONNIE BEERS – praying, sister, that is a lot to handle. Are there any resources in your area that might be available for your aunt?
KIMBERLY – beautiful comment yesterday
KARI – … to the tune of On Christ the Solid Rock I Stand ❤️
CEE GEE ❤️ family member is making good progress in some areas, unresolved/undiagnosed issues remain. Teens – so much prayer needed for them
DONNA WOLCOTT – praying for your son’s healing and wisdom for the med team
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PRAYER REQUEST for Nate, a 4 year old battling Ewing Sarcoma. He is a good friend of my niece’s son from 3K. He is being treated a few hours away instead of here with his friends in 4K. I’ll copy any replies for him and get them to his mom – she told my niece she was so thankful I was willing to share the need. Thank you, sisters.
Lord we lift up Nate to you this morning. God, we pray for complete and total healing for him. We pray that you would give his body the strength and endurance to fight this. We pray for his mom and dad as they are enduring what no parent ever wants to endure. We know you are good, that you made Nate, and that you have a plan for his life. Amen.
Lord God, have mercy on Nate your precious child. I ask that you would fully heal him, set his cells straight, remove any cancer. Keep him strong in body and spirit during his treatments. ABBA Father, be with his parents as they stand by his side. Let them know your presence like never before. In Jesus’s name. Amen
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Praying for young Nate and for mom & dad. May God give peace and comfort to his family and wisdom to the doctors who are treating him. And Father, wrap your loving arms around Nate, let him feel Your presence in the absence of his friends and minister to his young heart. Heal him Father God, according to Your will. In Jesus Name. Much love and prayers being sent from NJ! ❤️
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Praying for Nate and for his family.
Praying for Nate’s treatments to go smoothly and for the Holy Spirit to be all over the hospital visits and medical appointments and with all the doctors and medical teams. Praying for healing for dear little Nate.
Praying all the She’s prayers for Nate
You are so humble sister. KELLY (NEO) and you are super awesome pioneers! You remind me of the four friends who brought the paralyzed friend through the roof (a need request and then to engage a village to pray to God to get through the obstacle). Joining our shes to pray for Nate’s strong healing recovery in Jesus’ Name.
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Praying for wisdom in testing in order to diagnosis issues with family member! Thankful for the improvement.
Continued prayers for teens.
.Agreeing with MERCY re: you, Kelly, and other sisters who keep track.
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Big prayers for wisdom for little Nate’s medical team, compassion for the family and for Nate’s longing for his friends. For Nate’s mom and dad: May God, our merciful Father and the source of all comfort, fill your hearts with peace in these troubling days. We are here to lift you up! Sending hugs. In Jesus’ Name. Amen
Like SALLY B., it is when someone questions my work I operate in pridemode. It definitely does not first enter my mind that I could learn a better way from the other person.
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The Spirit was working on me for sure as I handed off many of my duties at work to a new gal a couple of years ago. I still am dealing with it when her response to work load demands are not the way I would have handled it. When people come to me for things she is supposed to be doing, I really need to have an more humble attitude and redirect them to her instead of handling it myself or being annoyed that she is not doing her “job.”
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Hope your day goes well ladies.
Praying for your requests
Same, sister. Why doesn’t X just do their job? is the question that comes to mind too often. Lots of muttering from me instead of a better response.
Me three ladies!
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Father help me see the roots of my Pride and seek Your freedom! In Jesus name, Amen
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The place in my life where pride is the biggest struggle is asking for help. I of course guise it under not wanting to be a burden or I’m strong and independent, but at its core in my pride is not wanting to admit I can’t do it. This past spring God broke me of this when I couldn’t drive for a few months.
I hadn’t thought of this when I was journaling, but this hits home – I also have a hard time asking for help. I’ve also thought it was out of not wanting to be a burden to others, but it was recently suggested to me that I like to be in control (ouch!). I’ve got to go add this to my list! Something to work on…
Danielle, I used to struggle with this as well. And then the spirit revealed to me that “even Jesus asked for help…. He asked people to pray for and with Him, to come alongside Him, to be near Him”…. So if Jesus asks for help, who am I not to? It humbled me and has brought a complete shift in my thinking.
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Philippians 2:3
3 Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others.
Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.
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Sadly more examples of pride than humility come to mind. I think my marriage relationship is where God works most in me even though the issue isn’t me wanting my own way. It’s wanting what’s best for us as a couple. So is that pride? I guess that’s why the Philippians verse stood out to me.
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From John MacArthur
Proverbs 11:2 Pride
From a root meaning “to boil,” or “to run over,” indicating an overwhelmingly arrogant attitude or behavior. It is used of ordinary men (Deut. 17:12, 13); kings (Neh. 9:10); Israel (Neh. 9:16, 29); false prophets (Deut. 18:20); and murderers (Ex. 21:14).
the humble. A rare word, which appears in Mic. 6:8:
“walk humbly with your God.” This humble and teachable spirit is first of all directed toward God (cf. 15:33; 16:18, 19; 18:12; 22:4).
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This brings to mind the verse in the hymn At Calvary:
Years I spend in vanity and pride
Caring not my Lord was crucified
Knowing not it was for me He died
On Calvary
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That verse certainly puts things in perspective! I don’t want to elevate myself/my needs over God. I don’t want to fall into the ‘caring not’ group. May I always remember and thank Him for his mercy, grace, and pardon.
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Love, hugs, and prayers! ❤
“I don’t want to elevate myself/my needs over God. I don’t want to fall into the ‘caring not’ group.”
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Me either, early bird :) ❤️
I repeated that same line! It’s a good one. (and yes, what’s she doing under your comment, lol)
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SEARCHING and RHONDA J- Y’all bless my heart and make me laugh all at the same time! ❤
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SEARCHING, the posting boss won’t let me post a singular heart for you.
This is a very touching reflection. Thank you!
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I want to feel like I do this well, until someone calls into question something about my work. Then, not so much! Here’s my list from today’s verses on how better to cultivate humility in my life:
-fear the Lord
-do not boast, especially about myself
-take advice or criticism
-do not rejoice when others fall
-do not demand time from others
-confess my sin
Grateful for God’s mercy and instruction in this study AND our SRT team for pulling it together! Happy Friday Ladies.
I really appreciate your list Sally! I copied it!
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Who in your life models humility well, and how do you see them expressing humility in their actions?
Two individuals at church- Aleida and Alan – the way they crouch down to listen to the elderly; the way they never boast / show off their intelligence even though they are highly intelligent people; the way they smile and look people in the eye in such a way that shows love and genuine care. Alan used to be a pastor, and Aleida was a translator , and they are the two most servant hearted people I can think of right now. They meet people where they are and are always showing such quiet acts of kindness in their old age.
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I immediately thought of a retired pastor Jack and his wife Becky. The most humble people I have never known. Even as Jack’s body fails and Becky takes care of them, their hands are still extended to others. A true example of Christ!
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