A New Command

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John 13:31-35, John 15:1-17, Romans 13:8-10, Leviticus 19:18

One evening in high school, I decided to make a quilt. So with mediocre sewing skills, my preconceived notions of the quilting process, and no further research, I got to work. Concert t-shirts, jeans, scraps of silk, an old volleyball jersey—I cut every spare piece of fabric I could find into messy, uneven squares. After arranging them into a haphazard pattern, I started sewing. The process did not go smoothly. I knew nothing of pre-washing fabrics, ironing seams, or how different materials would work alongside one another. But after months of tears and fighting with my sewing machine, I wrangled the material into something resembling a quilt top that my grandmother mercifully completed with a backing. 

The finished product has no business existing. It’s not much to look at, and it certainly fails to meet even the most generous standard for visual appeal. But to this day, I keep it in a basket next to my couch, carefully folded alongside the more meticulously crafted quilts I’ve inherited. It’s precious to me because, in spite of its flaws and shortcomings, it’s my own. 

My mind kept returning to my quilt as our team worked on this reading plan about life in Christian community. I don’t think I’m alone in feeling like life with other believers is often easier read about than lived. The family of God is messy. We’re a disparate group of individuals from every imaginable nation, ethnicity, family circumstance, and political affiliation. Each one of us has a story, and we bring our own history of wounds and wounding to the family table. 

Thankfully, this isn’t new or surprising to God. From the first disciples and the early Church to our current cultural moment, the body of Christ has always been made up of believers who have no real reason for living in community together outside of the one reason that changes everything. Jesus brings each one of us mismatched pieces into something meticulously crafted and beautiful: His people, the body of Christ. 

“I give you a new command: Love one another. Just as I have loved you, you are also to love one another.”
—John 13:34

Over the next two weeks, we’ll read more of these “one another” commands. Each one describes what it looks like to love our brothers and sisters in Christ because of how we are loved by Him. These relationships are a means of radically reflecting Christ’s transforming love to each other and to the world around us. 

Learning to live well together with other believers is a good and worthwhile mission, even (or especially) when it isn’t easy. No matter where this day’s reading finds you, whether in a season of flourishing community or one of struggle and searching, my prayer is that we will be both challenged and encouraged together through these series of commands. 

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  1. Nicole Tirado says:

    Such a great reminder in the midst of a season of struggle to want to be part of the church and do what I have always felt called to do. He loves us even when we struggle and throw tantrums like toddlers, God is so good

  2. Shelly Stubblefield says:

    Love is the key, Jesus wants us to understand how important this command is. Such a good reminder these days.

  3. Bronte Holland says:

    How amazing that Jesus chose us to be his people! With all our flaws and weaknesses and mistakes, Jesus still loves us and because of what he’s done, we get to live a life for him! Just so amazing!

  4. Makiya Cannon says:

    I am working on getting rid of my negative energy. Positive energy towards others is my goal.

  5. Ada McCloud says:

    I’m struggling with wanting to be a part of a church community.

  6. Jessica Ipkendnaz says:

    Loved this especially the quilt analogy

  7. Brooke Moore says:

    Praying that I’m able to balance loving others while also taking care of myself. Sometimes I’m so overwhelmed by taking care of others that I forget to take care of myself. Only by the Lords strength can we love like He does.

  8. Bethany GrahamTodd says:

    Goodness, I need these two weeks!

  9. Paige Gadd says:

    Me and other coworkers are really having a difficult time with one of our other coworkers being “hard to love.” I have made flash cards of John 13:34 to help remind us of his commandment! Please pray for us as we continue to love her through the difficult times when it’s easier to not love than to love!

  10. Boston Britt says:

    Always need to be reminded of these beautiful truths

  11. Rachelle Miller says:

    I read this as a major conflict is happening between my husband & I and another Christian couple. Trying desperately to love them as they continue to hurt us.

  12. Jennifer Hampson says:

    Glory to God for these incredible words!

  13. Mackenzi Clayton says:

    Love each other as god led us to!

  14. Heather Hooper says:

    Finding my purpose …In this new season of my life…recently “retired” from classroom teaching… in my mid 50’s…. We own our own business… all 3 of our children married in the last 2 years…now have 1 grand baby and another on the way… amazing season… but it’s new… and finding out a new way of walking out each day with no particular agenda set before me… but this… love one another… challenges me to pursue Christ full on and LOVE with what He provides and sets before me!

  15. belle ingersoll says:

    His unconditional love He has lavished upon us && then we are called to then overflow that into our friendships && into every area of our lives! ✞

  16. Emily Stucky says:

    this is a beautiful reading!! finding me in a season of friendship dysfunction! love these words and encouragement!

  17. Diana Edwards says:

    Love is what we are called to – to be set apart by how we love one another

  18. Andrea Melgar says:

    Love God and love others ❤️

  19. Erinn Lawson says:

    Struggling to show love in my classroom to those that seem to have made it their mission to be hard to love.

  20. Elisabeth Britt says:

    Our church family has been going through some tough times, praying as a whole, we follow the command to love one another.

  21. Meme Greer says:

    I’ve been a Christian for a long time. We moved to a new state and finding a new church family was challenging during COVID. We have found a wonderful church family. I chose this plan because I want to love others well and honor Christ with my life

  22. Alicia Harrell says:

    Trying to figure out a next step in finding/creating a stronger faith-based community. Praying this plan helps me navigate this path.

  23. Gillian Watson says:

    I hope you are inspired to look for the body of Christ around you, community is so important, especially when you feel you don’t have it. Thank you for sharing your struggles.

  24. Victoria Barela says:

    We love because He first loves us. He is Love.

  25. Ana Sanchez says:

    ❤️

  26. Erin Hector says:

    At our church we talked about belonging and purpose and how we are called to be in community with one another and that we belong with Jesus. I chose this plan because I want to continue to grow and love my Christian and non-Christian community

  27. Katelyn Lease says:

    ♥️

  28. Anna Brown says:

    ♥️

  29. Marie Baxter says:

    It’s often more easy for me to love strangers or my non believing friends than my church family. I expect more from my church family and lack to extend grace. I pray this study opens my eyes to love as Jesus did.

  30. Cheryl Clemons says:

    ❤️

  31. Laura Finley says:

    Good to remember- to walk in love, is His plan for us.

  32. Morgan Day says:

    ❤️❤️

  33. Courtney Horne says:

    ❤️

  34. Rachel Blessum says:

    ❤️

  35. Edith Ting says:

    ❤️

  36. Brittany Craemer says:

    Excited to start this ❤️

  37. Lauren Yonut says:

    Is there only one day? I thought it was 14

  38. Lauren Yonut says:

    I’m trying

  39. Jasmine Taylor says:

    I am so excited & ready for this plan ❤️

  40. Sarah Harris says:

    ❤️

  41. Karen Jorgensen says:

  42. Genesis Stuart says:

    Struggling with this right now, so definitely glad I came across this plan

  43. Mariah Hernandez says:

    Love this!!

  44. Ali Hilliard says:

    Me too Mariah! May we learn how to love more like Christ though this devo.

  45. Ali Hilliard says:

    I am so excited to learn more as I navigate trying to love my brothers new fiancée.

  46. Karen Jorgensen says:

    I agree. What a great way to start the new year

  47. Karen Jorgensen says:

    I agree, such a great way to start the new year

  48. Patsy Wirth says:

    ♥️

  49. Chloe Smith says:

    So good!! I really need this right now

  50. Pauline Sahetapy says:

    Agree! ❤️

  51. Jasmine Sluyter says:

    ⭐️

  52. Susanna Schlecht says:

    This hit home! Thank you!

  53. Molly Hurst says:

    ❤️

  54. Allie Couch says:

    I love this devotional!

  55. Rebekah Smith says:

    a good reminder this morning!

  56. Alicia Nunez says:

    ❤️

  57. Bianca says:

    ♥️

  58. Karen Slaughter says:

    ❤️

  59. Laurel Green says:

    I am excited to start this devotional on loving others and being in community. We always need that. We love because He first loved us. ♥️

  60. Diane Murray says:

    I just found this teaching and am so excited! I need lots of help in this area, so finding you was no mistake! Thank you!

  61. KayDe Roth says:

    ❤️

  62. Anita Smith says:

    I’m new here too. Very excited. I’m getting a later start but trying to catch up quickly.

  63. Samantha Maumbe says:

    Lord dispite my circumstances teach me to love those who have hurt me for you have loved me dispite my own flaws and choices.

  64. Brittani George says:

    ❤️

  65. JayLynn Sperry says:

    :-)

  66. Mariah Reed says:

    I needed this. I’m struggling with loving others it’s funny how he works he knows when we are ready for things.

  67. Jennifer Ficklen says:

    ❤️

  68. Betty says:

    I really enjoyed today’s reading.

    I find it hard to love others at church who are different to me. I feel more connected with non-believers due to common interests & culture. Sometimes this leads to me feeling like my closest connections aren’t at church.

    However I am reminded that church isn’t a place for me to find a best friend. But a place where I can love deeply, experience fellowship and grow in my walk with Jesus.

  69. Monica Hughes says:

    Thank you Lord for your Word! I want to show love to others as you show love to me.

  70. Debbie Kim says:

    “It’s precious to me bc depsite the flaws and shortcomings, it’s my own”

    Thank you for this ❤️

  71. Bobbi Hague says:

    This study came at the right time for me. As I struggle with change at work and the death of someone from my past, I need God’s encouraging word ❤️

  72. Amber Guitron says:

    Great perspective as we head into a season of thankfulness and giving. We are called to love one another- ABOVE ALL ELSE.

  73. Kris C says:

    This is my first actual purchase of a study: can’t wait. I know Gods words are true: Love God and Love others: sooooo hard especially in today’s world. I know this study is fitting in this culture today of MAN made division. May God bless this study.

  74. April Goralski says:

    I’m new here and I’m really looking to deepen my understanding and relationship with God. Just ordered my first subscription box and I’m excited for the Advent edition. Christmas has always been my favorite time of year and what better time than now to make a new commitment to makes us

  75. April Goralski says:

    I’m new here and I’m really looking to deepen my understanding and relationship with God. Just ordered my first subscription box and I’m excited for the Advent edition. I’m

  76. Sophia says:

    ❤️ Jumping back into the SRT community. My heart is longing for more connection, and of course it led me here. ☺️ Just ordered my FIRST study bible just in time for advent, i know it will make the Christmas season that much more special. Thank you guys for all that you do!

  77. Whitney Morgan says:

    ❤️

  78. Sherree Hunsberger says:

    Blessing me with convictions that I need to hear! God is so faithful to show us things that need to change in our lives. Love this.

  79. Teeann Cowan says:

  80. Ashlee Hickson says:

    This is my first SRT Bible study but I am buying the advent 2021 study which I am so excited about for December!!! Thank you SRT community!

  81. Megan Kelly says:

    @Morgan Bonnell do you follow Emily Jensen or Laura Wifler from Risen Motherhood? They also have special needs kiddos and write about their experiences. I love listening to their podcast episodes, it’s just like SRT and sitting with friends.

  82. Rebecca Priddy says:

    This goes along so well with the discipleship unit we are doing in church right now! Love it!

  83. Tammy Durn says:

    Thank you @TriciaCavanaugh

  84. Alexis Brown says:

    This is my first SRT Bible Study and I’m looking forward to diving in! Love the format. So glad I found this!

  85. Alexis Brown says:

    This is my first SRT Bible Study and I’m looking forward to diving in! Love the forma

  86. Mary Ann Graves says:

    My grandson has ADHD along with oppositional defiant disorder. Sometimes he argues just to argue!
    Love is the only thing you can do during these times or you become too stressed. Hug your child if he let’s you otherwise just try to show him love. Praying for you and all parents especially those with challenging children.

  87. Michelle Eisele says:

    It’s good to put thoughts into words about how we should live with one another about believers. I’m trying to be more conscientious about filtering my actions through what God wants me to do and it’s so profitable to apply that to my relationships as well.

  88. Amber Sanders says:

    I know the Lord is speaking to me and telling me how badly I need to be in community with other believers. Almost every reading plan I’m doing (that happen to be in multiple different places) all point to being in community with others, serving others, and learning to live and love like Christ. It always fills me up when I hear and feel Him speaking to me like this.

  89. Kinesha Cox says:

    This is exactly what I needed right now!

  90. Melissa Kenck says:

    Love your neighbor, such a simple thought but something that can get lost in the day to day. Great reminder! Praying God continues to stir in our hearts. ❤️

  91. Lauren L says:

    Today was my first day dong a She Reads Truth bible study as well as truly diving into my She Reads Truth Bible and I am so excited! My relationship has been in a tough spot recently and hitting rocky times, I am hoping this bible study opens my eyes and heart into loving others the way Jesus loves us

  92. Jaimie Mason says:

    This bible study is exactly what I need . I pray God will open my heart , silence my mind as I read his word.

  93. Colleen Snover says:

    My heart is full!! This is the song my soul sings since the day Jesus called me. I have fallen into doubt, stayed by faith and feel Him talking to me here. God is good.

  94. Elizabeth Gibson says:

    This study is an on time message from God! We’ve been struggling with behavior issues with my younger son at school and I’m other areas. I’ve been feeling very weary and heavy laden and alone. We live in Germany currently (my husband is active duty Air Force) and it’s been difficult finding community of like minded believers especially during covid times. But I know God wants to grow me and stretch my faith. I’m excited to read this study and share it with my son!

  95. Alina P says:

    Praying for you Morgan. Yesterday I have been having a very hard day, and I felt like venting and crying, but I learn to give it all to Jesus!

  96. Stephanie Foster says:

    This is all new to me. I am trying to learn to be a better Christian and my hope is that through this study and other studies I will become the Christian I need to be.

  97. Mary Zerg says:

    I too am feeling like this study has come at the perfect time. Being reminded of all of God’s ways he shows us and tells us to love one another. I am reminded that when I live, speak, and act out of love for one another, I am a much more present, happy, and positive person.

  98. Abby Lewis says:

    I’m excited to do this Bible study with everyone! This study came at the right time.

  99. Calleen Howard says:

    This topic is coming at the perfect time for my husband and I. We are struggling in our church family and feeling like we might not belong. It’s sad and I hope that through the help of she/he reads truth we will be able to remain in love through this season evolving our current situation. ❤

  100. Rebecca Webster says:

    This is my first study with this group and I am so excited. One Another is the perfect start for me.

  101. Rebecca Webster says:

    Praying for God’s healing hands.

  102. Julia Brown says:

    Absolutely. The division is one of Satan’s main ways to attack and he’s got to be thrilled that the pandemic offered him this chance. But he’s not going to win!

  103. Julia Brown says:

    You are NOT ALONE. I have two special needs daughters and their care medically and at home and even school because we homeschool all falls on me. My hubby is very hands off. And lately has been swamped with work.

    My oldest is 10 and has ADHD on top of other things and is going through an extremely defiant stage. Its so hard and nothing seems to help. I have horrible migraines and the stress of everything lately has made them worse. It’s a rough time and I’m exhausted too. Glad to know I’m not alone. Are you in the Pacific nw by chance?

  104. Kenyetta Kennedy-Sanders says:

    This plan could not have come at a more perfect time. I have been on a journey of healing, forgiveness, restoration and rebirth. This reading immediately chin checked me. It caused me to ask myself how are you presenting. Are you loving each other. While in the corner of my mess what behavior am I exhibiting? I am moved, but I am confident that all the things that were once distractions are being replaced with Obedience of following and representing my father!!

  105. Kenyetta Kennedy-Sanders says:

    This plan could not have come at a more perfect. I have been on a journey healing, forgiveness, restoration and rebirth. This reading immediately chin checked me. It caused me to ask myself how are you presenting. Are you loving each other. While on the corner what behavior am I exhibiting!

  106. Tara Workman says:

    I totally understand where you are coming from. We are in a tough parenting season with our 8yr old who just got diagnosed with ADHD. He suffers from huge anger control. We have agreed that I would stay home to be there for his needs when he isn’t in school. My husband works a lot so many days I feel lonely. I tend to isolate myself from friendships. SRT has been life changing for me. My connection to God has increased in a time of parenting that the only thing I can do is lean on him for patience and wisdom. Mothering can be lonely sometimes. Thankful for this group!

  107. Mary Stilin says:

    I am in the process of reevaluating a friendship. It is kind of one sided and a bit codependent. I completely get where you are coming from. It is tough. I agree that this study is at the perfect time. The podcast episode for this week gave me some clarity too. I will be praying for you and your friend during this time. It’s not easy but sometimes walking away so God can work on us is necessary.

  108. Jessica Close says:

    ❤️

  109. Kristin Sparkman says:

    Welcome Back Churchmouse. We are so happy you are here!

  110. Cara P says:

    So good to see you back. You have been missed and I will be praying for you daily now that we have some answers. God always has a plan and it is in his perfect timing. Wait patiently my friend.

  111. Samantha Bozard says:

    This study came at the perfect time for me! I just had to walk away from a very close friendship because it had gotten extremely toxic and codependent, and instead of us helping each other grow, we were just continuing in a cycle that was stealing my joy & making it really hard to love the other people in my life well. I’ve felt a huge burden of guilt for feeling so much relief walking away from that friendship, and also for setting those boundaries with her, even though I know I it’s what I needed to do. Yesterday’s podcast where they talked about how sometimes Jesus showed love by being brutally honest with others and caring for them while also setting boundaries gave me so much clarity on this situation. Love isn’t always going along with everything to keep the peace, sometimes it’s having those hard conversations and recognizing when things aren’t healthy. I really needed to remember that! I truly believe that God can use our relationships to help in that process of pruning and in this instance, I had to recognize that my friendship was not helping either one of us grow or bear fruit. Instead, it was keeping us wrapped up in vines, unable to flourish. Today’s reading finally gave me the words to communicate exactly why I felt I needed to walk away from this relationship, and I pray that by taking some space, God can allow healing in both of our lives & prune us back to the place where we are able to bear fruit. I pray he gives us both a healthy community where we can grow instead of remaining in that toxic cycle and that we can learn from the friendship we had moving forward, instead of feeling anger or bitterness from the loss of it. Because I’ve spent so much time focused on this toxic relationship, I have a lot of work to do building back up that community that I crave. I put so many of my great, healthy relationships on the back burner to focus on this relationship & even though I’m frustrated looking back on the time I feel like I “wasted”, I know nothing is wasted with God. Sisters, please pray for me as I grieve this friendship and try to rebuild community in my own life. Pray for my friend, who is also a believer but is far from God, that she will be comforted during this time and find friendships that are healthy and that draw her back to Him.

  112. Morgan Bonnell says:

    I am in a tough season right now. I have 2 children under 6 with special needs and an 11 year old and 14 year old. I love that we are starting this study before Advent. I continue to reach out to people to fellowship with but struggle to have the time to keep the relationship going. Despite being married to a wonderful husband, my mothering journey feels lonely at times and I have been praying for a good friend to come into my life and understand me and my challenges. I have been reading SRT for almost a year and love how it grounds me in the word before my day starts. I am not sure why I shared all that but I can’t be the only, lonely, exhausted mother out there.

  113. Jillian Lee says:

    I’m so sorry! Praying for you ♥️

  114. Sherri says:

    Churchmouse, welcome back! I know exactly how you feel. I haven’t been to in person worship at my church since March 2020!! I too have been vaccinated & boosted but I’m reluctant to return when my church will reopen on December 5, 2021, because our numbers aren’t great in my state either. Let’s keep praying for God’s guidance & protection.
    Blessings you & all SRTers.

  115. Listening says:

    As usual, this SRT study is both timely and resonates deeply. In the midst of struggling with another believer, I am hopeful to hear from the Lord because I am at a loss.

  116. Calli S Scully says:

    CHURCHMOUSE!! I’m so happy to see you are back! We have all missed you so much.

  117. Tricia Theirl says:

    Jordan, Praying you find a good church family! I changed churches last February and signed up for house groups right away. I knew if I didn’t jump in head first it wouldn’t get done. The “what if they don’t like me/what if I don’t connect with anyone” thoughts jumped right in. I LOVE my house group! Hoping you can find fellowship with others as well!

  118. Tricia Theirl says:

    So glad to be doing this study. It’s easy to be negative especially towards people we view as difficult. Sometimes the most difficult people are the ones that need the most love. They deserve it just as much as we do. Even if they act like they don’t want or need it. I am the first to admit that I let negative thoughts towards others creep into my head sometimes. That’s the enemy wanting us to show hate and spite towards others. The way I am going to apply todays reading to my life is by taking action when those thoughts towards others creep in. I will have to make a conscious decision to stop that thought immediately and instead, say something positive or nice to the person I have the negative thought towards. If I can’t say it to them then I will say it to myself, someone else, or God. Or I can say a quick prayer for them. I want to show others how I show love to others.

  119. Jordan T says:

    I have been reading with SRT for several years but have not really engaged in the comment section. I guess this withdraw to doing things individually has been a theme in my faith. I feel a stirring to find a new church family and engage with other believers more and love them well. Would appreciate any prayers in this! Happy to be a She and hope to engage with other She’s more often too!

  120. Sydney S says:

    Churchmouse it’s great to read your story! I’ve been on a sabbatical as well but also felt a similar tug when this study changed

  121. Traia Scott says:

    It’s so convicting to me to be reminded that loving my neighbor is the summation of the law—that when I love God’s way, it keeps me out of trouble and from sinning. God is so gracious to me!

  122. Traia Scott says:

    Oh I’m so sorry Chelsea, I will be praying for you. That the Lord will comfort your heart, quiet the chaos and give you a miracle ❤️

    It’s so convicting to me to be reminded that loving my neighbor is the summation of the law—that when I love

  123. Traia Scott says:

    Oh I’m so sorry Chelsea, I will be praying for you. That the Lord will comfort your heart, quiet the chaos and give you a miracle ❤️

  124. Chelsey W says:

    Missed you Churchmouse :)

  125. Alina P says:

    I have struggled to show my kids much love today. Everything they did, everything they said .. it was simply irritating to me. I realized the long day at work, driving to sport practices, trying to fit in dinners and still do homework leaves very little time for quiet time, it just builds up. My husband quietly waked in to the room and took the wheel.. I went into my room closed the door, my heart wanted to cry. How can I love my neighbor when it’s hard to show love to my kids. I’m so grateful for the Holy Spirit to speak to my heart. Im so grateful that He speaks to our hearts in this quiet soothing sound and at times when it’s so hard to love others He shows up through others and shows how to love.

  126. Morgan Walker says:

    @Natasha R, I needed that explanation! It was so helpful. Thank you!

  127. Jaqueline Decker says:

    With today’s reading, I’m encouraged, convicted, and inspired to pause and ask myself if I have loved on that person I’ve come in contact with today. Did I stop to notice them, talk to them and made them feel seen/loved.

  128. Alycia Skomsvold says:

    This is my first time on here and my very first SRT study. I am excited to be a part of this community!

  129. Amber Candis says:

    Amen ❤️

  130. Caitlin Calonge says:

    Not sure why that didn’t finish posting!

  131. Caitlin Calonge says:

    This is my first time participating in this app and Bible study!! What a great community you all have here! ❤️

  132. Caitlin Calonge says:

    This is my first time

  133. Sandy Phillips says:

    This is SO big on me! We need each other – we all have something to offer those around us. Let’s start loving/living like Jesus and watch what a difference we can make in our communities! BLESSED beyond measure!

  134. Sue says:

    Church Mouse – I am so thankful you have returned to SRT and am sorry you have been so isolated and have been let down by your church community. Please know your absence was definitely missed here and that we are thrilled to hear from you again. You are loved and valued.
    May you feel God’s presence and grace and may He bless you as you navigate this difficult journey.

  135. Kristine Purcell says:

    I think this topic is greatly needed in light of all that has happened over the last year and a half. We all need to go back to scripture and remember how God wants of to love one another and see everyone as children of God.

  136. Ashley Thomas says:

    @churchmouse I am so glad to read your words again. I have been so worried about you, since I have followed you along here for a couple of years. I, too, have reluctance about going back to church, although mine is unrelated to my health situation. I feel like things are so different from what they were like pre-Covid. My church still hasn’t resumed the second service we used to have, and the way things are being done is much different than before. I look forward to reading your words of wisdom as well as all the other SRT sisters here. I don’t comment very often, but I read and pray for you all daily.

  137. Nicole Green says:

    ❤️

  138. HJ says:

    Chelsea, I pray that you are able to truly feel the love of God in this difficult time when you feel less than loved.

  139. Chelsea Adkins says:

    During lockdown in Australia my husband told me he doesn’t want to be married anymore. I’m heartbroken and grieving. Reading today’s passage has reminded me of the importance of unity and love in the church, Christ’s body, and I hope that he can give me wisdom in how to love my husband (as a member of Christs body) when it’s ever so difficult to do so right now.

  140. Tricia Cavanaugh says:

    Church Mouse,

  141. Tricia Cavanaugh says:

    Tammy Durn, I really believe that if we are living and following God’s will we will only ask for things that God wants for us. That’s how I read it.

  142. Natasha R says:

    It can be hard to love other people. The readings in this devotional remind me that loving others is not about who they are and what they do, it is about who I am (a child of God) and what Jesus has done for me.

  143. Susan Crosby says:

    No matter what you believe about the pandemic Satan has certainly used it to divide and conquer within the church…what is the church?…it’s not a building but it’s the body of believers…believers have drawn lines over all things related to this virus…may we all remember to love one another and be unified on what matters…faith in Christ Jesus…He’s our Hope❤️

  144. Tamara Hinds says:

    I’ve had a long standing on/off relationship with the Church and I’m sad to say that after a long struggle with my faith it’s been almost 10 years since I last attended a service. I’ve been questioning myself lately and this study is so wonderfully timed. So excited to read this and hopefully gain the insight I need to cement change.

  145. Moriah says:

    I feel like that Leviticus verse was picked just for me. I have been praying that the Lord would lift the bitterness from my heart and help me forgive those who have hurt me. It’s hard, because I want them to know they hurt me and I want them to hurt, too. But I keep seeing messages like this verse that tell me God wants me to forgive and move on, that I can’t heal if I’m holding on to my hurt. Lord, help me to forgive, because I can’t do it on my own.

  146. Maura says:

    Lexi B, praying for your Uncle, wisdom for the doctors, Jesus healing.

  147. Eryn Murray says:

    I love the focus of the new command love one another. I will definitely be reflecting. On this today cuz I see that “one another” has no preference, no color. Just versatility.

  148. Lexi B says:

    Hi She’s

    Big prayer request. After not hearing from my uncle a while, I called police to do a wellness check. They found him unconscious but breathing. I’m with him now in the ICU. He’s had a stroke, is septic and is starting dialysis. My family is flying in tomorrow. Prayers for strength, for his healing and comfort for my family. Thank you❤️

  149. Cheryl Williams says:

    Hello everyone!

  150. Cynthia Johnston says:

    Churchmouse, you have been missed, prayed for and loved from all over SRT! We are so grateful for your contribution to this community. I am sad to read how your local community has not reached out to you during this very isolating time. May the God of all comfort comfort you and lead you to a place of corporate worship soon. Your sisters here are thrilled to see you again. ♥️

  151. La'Lisa Pugh says:

    WhT

  152. Suzanna Bond says:

    I can relate. And you already know that God can develop our love. I have been trained to be patient rather than gifted at being patient. It’s wonderful you can be loving to your neighbors. Go with it! That practice will extent to those who are familiar to you in time.

  153. Krista Greer says:

    Good morning!
    I haven’t commented before, but I have been on lots of the studies. I was praying over this question and i don’t know the answer, but the word does say that Jesus told them to love one another as He had loved them. He gave the perfect example for what He was commanding. I am so encouraged by that! It also reminds me that when I as a parent am asking things of my kids I need to lead them by example.

  154. Krista Greer says:

    Good morning!

  155. Krista Greer says:

    Good morning

  156. Linneah Olsen says:

    I have gone through a particular hard time “loving” the people around me lately, so I am really looking for to being challenged by this study and to grow in relationship with God and others.

  157. Allegra Grawer says:

    I’m so happy to join you all during this study. I don’t post often, but I get so much out of everyone’s comments, sharing, and vulnerability here. I, too, struggle with how to love others when we’ve been hurt or betrayed, and how to support those we love who are feeling this. But my struggle is usually because I’m trying to figure things out on my own, and I don’t have to do that! Jesus has given us the guide and Words, so my work is in learning how to trust this and live it out.

  158. Victoria E says:

    CeeGee I feel like that too sometimes. I literally cried yesterday, I just had so much anxiety and then on top of that I felt disappointed that I still struggle so much with this anxiety instead of trusting God. I just wanted to hide from Him but I know anytime I feel like that it is the enemy trying to keep me from Him.

  159. Victoria E says:

    Erika Hodgens I hear where you are coming from. I think texting is an excellent first step, pray and see where the Holy Spirit leads you next. I am sorry you haven’t been able to go back. It’s been hard for us too, we mask and sit in the balcony where there are few people but mostly connect with our small group.

  160. Victoria E says:

    Wow so many comments and new people here ! I am so excited to see that and to welcome back Churchmouse ! Brittany C I am praying for you and baby. Very excited to learn more about loving one another but also to actually DO it in the difficult situations.

  161. Amy Fava says:

    Question: Does anyone besides me sometimes find it easier to love strangers than my actual neighbor? I have to confess that as I get to know someone and experience their flaws and shortcomings, loving them becomes more of a challenge or at least loving them correctly, like God loves them. I find myself frustrated and impatient with people. Thankfully God has transformed me through the years. I don’t seek vengeance or gossip and slander but I still have work to do. God has already given me a glimpse of it on day 1.

  162. Emily McGrath says:

    Welcome to all my new sisters. This study is so timely for me. I’m am grateful to all of you and the ability to connect even if online. God is good!

  163. Jillian Lee says:

    Hi all, I’m definitely in the season of struggle and searching I thought my life was headed toward marriage and starting a family and in one swoop everything was instantly gone. Like somebody pulled the rug right out from under me. So the verse “ ask and it will be done” is a difficult because I have been asking for this for a very long time and just as soon I was sure I had it , it was gone. It’s been really hard to pray lately and be in his word but I’m hopeful as I start this study.

  164. Patricia Paetz says:

    Why was this command new to them?

  165. Tanya Williams says:

    This is my first study. I am so excited to dig into it. I contemplated on whether I should become a subscriber but I think it was a great decision. ☺️

  166. Chris S says:

    Church mouse!! Are we glad to see you back or what!! We have missed you!! We have prayed for you. So glad to hear you are well! Don’t leave us again!!

    Ladies, everyones presence here is so valuable! I agree, let’s set a new record this year for Advent!!

  167. Rhonda J. says:

    Oh my gosh!! SO happy to see you Churchmouse!!! Boy have we missed you!! You wouldn’t believe how many SRT sisters have commented and prayed for you!! Wow, you really had us worried!! But we are so glad you are back! We all would have been calling and bugging you if we would have known how! haha.

  168. Danielle Christian says:

    I have not been on this app in a while. But I am glad to have join this Bible plan. At church we are also delving in how crucial it is to have fellowship with other believers. I have struggled with putting time with other believers. I know without that community it is easier to fall short. I hope to be able to love and bear with other believers.

  169. Chris S says:

    Thank you KD. Perfect insight.

  170. Catherine McVey says:

    Church Mouse like many others have already posted, I’m so happy to see you back. I have been reading with the SRT group for over two years and it was your comments I always looked forward to. Living in Alaska for many years I have always felt isolated from family. I work outside the home but I can honestly say the SRT community is priceless to me. I don’t often comment but look forward to my quiet morning with SRT and God before I start my very busy day. Prayers for all of you that comment. Have a great Monday!

  171. Lara Castillo says:

    Churchmouse, so happy you’re back. You have been missed here.

  172. Jan says:

    This study will be such a feast! Listening to the podcast today, I was taking notes like crazy! This command to love one another is so full. I am really looking forward to delving deeper into what this looks like in everyday life. There have been so many times that I have not loved others as myself and I want to learn how better do that; to see ways to serve and love others that I have not recognized before, or maybe ignored when I did recognize. I pray God’s blessing on each of us as we study and learn how to better serve Him through serving others.

  173. Mari V says:

    Churchmouse…….WE have missed you!!! So much! I am in tears right now I’m so happy you’re back! I’ve been praying for you daily. I even set a “reminder“ to make sure I reached out to you on Thanksgiving day to let you know that I’m thankful for you. I’m so glad you’re back. We’ve missed you.

  174. Mari V says:

    I have felt convicted. This study is definitely confirmation that I need to love those who are closest to me. My family. Mainly my mother whom I love very much and has been there for me, but there been challenges since I had to come back and live here with her, and actually I had to flee here for safety. And she accepted my two kids and I to come live here. Living with an elderly parent has not been easy, they are set in their ways and at this point and age they won’t change, so I need to change and choose to love my mother as she is. Please pray for me as this hasn’t been easy. She and I both love Jesus and this study has come I just the right time to love one another especially among believers.

  175. Linda Gilbow says:

    This is especially timely. Christians are from one end to the other on opinions about Covid, vaccines, masks, etc., and I’ve seen tension in relationships at church – and have experienced that tightrope myself. It will be wonderful to examine what Scripture teaches about how we navigate our differences as His children. We are not clones, but we are to have unity in the Spirit. I’m preparing myself to be convicted of wrong attitudes, and challenged to live God’s way, through the power of the Holy Spirit.

  176. LindaK says:

    I did a double take when I saw all the comments here! Welcome to all those who are new! This is a great community of women who have issues like everyone else but 1 of the differences here, as I see it, is the support given to 1 another and the willingness to walk alongside other believers and offer suggestions, prayer or interpretations of scripture to encourage someone else. Churchmouse so glad to hear from you! Many have been praying for you. NanaK and Skylar Hilton agreed! Praying for the needs concerning healing, grieving, relationships, upcoming meetings and work environments.

  177. Kerry Rowley says:

    Churchmouse! I have missed you so. I’m a long time reader of comments but I always looked for yours. I was so concerned when you disappeared. You were prayed for more than you will ever know. I am thrilled to see you back. I pray you find a local Christian community but know you are loved and greatly appreciated right here. Welcome back, dear friend.

  178. Jane K says:

    I have to admit that as I read these verses I become apprehensive. What will this cost me? Oh my sinful, selfish flesh is revealed as I read Jesus’s words this morning. May God continue to work in me and root out all the ugliness that hides in my heart. Churchmouse, I am so happy and relieved to see you back with us.

  179. Jana Thomas says:

    Amen! Thanks for sharing.

  180. Kelcy Pryor says:

    So thankful I’m able to come back and read one another with everyone. I had to take a break from the subscription for a while. But it feels so right getting back at it. I love today’s reading, it’s a reminder that love means everything in this early life we are going through. Weather we are struggling or flourishing, loving others will always help us show how Christ has loved us.

  181. GramsieSue . says:

    My Study Bible for Women went a little further and I wanted to share it with everyone. Without the Holy Spirit’s work in the hearts of born_again believers, the kind of unwavering, sacrificial love described here is impossible. All genuine love is rooted in God. When you face the seemingly insurmountable obstacle to love someone you do not want to love, you must reach further into the source of love found only in the Lord. You love through Christ because His love is perfect. IN ORDER TO LOVE IN PERFECTION, ABIDING IN THE LORD IS NECESSARY. I hear so many women say they just don’t have time to read the Bible, do a Bible study, etc. And then the struggle through life’s difficulties. I have certainly not had aa perfect life. This year has been a struggle with medical issues and even now I am recovery from bronchitis. Abiding daily with my Lord has been my saving grace. I am encouraged by all the new she’s this morning. And quite happy to see you back, Churchmouse. Hugs to you all. ❤️

  182. Bonnie Johnson says:

    I’m so excited to be starting with She Reads Truth. This will be my very first study, and a great topic!

  183. Dorothy says:

    Jessica really “hit the nail on the head” about the diverse group of Christians that can worship together. We are young — Skylar and several others — to old — myself and others — and in between; we are all over the world but we believe. That is what keeps us together our belief in the Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit.
    Have a blessed and wonderful day sisters.

  184. Leslie Warnick says:

    Churchmouse!!! Welcome back. I too missed you… I rarely post here but often read and have missed your discerning spirit!!

  185. Erin Pieratt says:

    @CHURCHMOUSE we are so thankful for your return to SRT. For months the community here has been praying for you and seeking answers to your absence. May the local community you seek be restored and in the meantime, know you are deeply loved by your Heavenly Father and all of us here in this online community.

  186. Tracy Reavis says:

    Happy to be here in this study.

  187. Lynne from Alabama says:

    Dear sisters, keep in mind that “No” and “Not now” are answers to your prayers,too (maybe not the ones you wanted to hear). I don’t feel that any prayers of a child of God are unanswered, they are just answered in accordance with God’s will.

  188. Nicole Reitnauer says:

    This is a difficult commandment, especially in these days when so many are not showing the same. I have to remember that Jesus commands us to love others, not necessarily like what they are doing or saying. My go to, for those that are not so nice, is prayer. I am really looking forward to this study as I can use all of the reminders I can get. Thank you!!

  189. Skylar Hilton says:

    “These things I command you, that ye love one another” “Abide in me” “Without me ye can do nothing.”

    Such beautiful, important lessons to learn. In today’s world, we are so bent on proving people wrong.. so bent on pushing people away. But, believers need to give this a rest.. and to rebuke this kind of attitude. Jesus loved us.. continues to love us.. and WILL ALWAYS love us.. WE OWE EVERYONE that same kind of love. It might be difficult for believers to love others.. but we have to ask Jesus to remove any type of unchristian like bitterness inside of us so we can love others. We should always love others for HIS sake.. not ours.

    People need to also remember that we cannot do anything without God. So many of us in this culture like to pride ourselves in being independent and not having to rely on anyone.. but that couldn’t be more of a lie! We are all dependent on God, and we should all be dependent on God every single moment, minute, second, and hour of the day. On good and bad days, we should always abide in Him.

    May we all avoid the toxicness of getting revenge. We should pray for that concept to finally end in our culture. That usually makes us just as bad. The best revenge is no revenge at all.

    I pray that we would also keep God’s other commandments!

    This was a great read! Our God is so amazing!

  190. Phoebe says:

    Welcome to the new SRT sisters! I don’t comment super often, but always read the comments when I’m doing my scripture reading and find so much encouragement in the faith!
    This morning the context of John 13 & 15 stood out to me – the new command to love one another given in chapter 13 happens just after Judas leaves the Last Supper, one of Jesus’ biggest betrayals. This tells me that there are no conditions on this command; we are to love one another, no questions asked. (Now, this doesn’t mean we allow ourselves to be walked all over, and this week’s podcast does a good job of distinguishing between the true love of Jesus and being mushy and nice to everyone all of the time.) And the context also points to how God puts no conditions on His love for us. I don’t have to be “good enough” or “nice enough” or anything “enough” for God to love me – Jesus died for me while I was still a sinner!
    As Collin Ross says in today’s HRT devotion, “His love is our foundational motivation.” And what an amazing love that is!

  191. PamC says:

    Welcome back CHURCH MOUSE. I missed you greatly, as we all did. I’m saddened by the pain you’ve suffered. We too have had to find church online. Wrapping you in hugs & love.
    Welcome to all the new SRT sisters. We are so glad to have you. I pray you find the love & community here that you are seeking. This is an amazing group of women that “loves one another” well.

  192. Samantha Lercara says:

    I, like so many of you, are in a season of unfamiliarity. My husband and I moved thousands of miles away from our friends and family. He works from home and I go to people’s homes for work. I pray that we find a community that provides us with a sense of home.

  193. Kristina Lopes says:

    Hi Tammy – For some reason, my original post got cut in half. Here’s the second half of what I was trying to share on John 15:16 ….. Everything that you try to do will come to nothing unless you do it through a conscious, abiding dependence on the enablement of Christ.

  194. Sarah Lagace says:

    This faithful, abiding disciple should expect answered prayer as part of their relationship with Jesus. A failure to see prayer answered means something is not right in the disciple’s relationship. Perhaps something is not right in the abiding, and prayers are amiss and unanswered. Perhaps something is not right in the asking and there is no perception of what Jesus wants to do in and through His disciple.

    iv. It shall be done for you: “It becomes safe for God to say to the sanctified soul, ‘Ask what thou wilt, and it shall be done unto thee.’ The heavenly instincts of that man lead him right; the grace that is within his soul thrusts down all covetous lustings and foul desires, and his will is the actual shadow of God’s will. The spiritual life is master in him, and so his aspirations are holy, heavenly, Godlike.” (Spurgeon)

  195. Sarah Lagace says:

    I’ve struggled with the same thing Tammy. It’s hard to reconcile verses like “ ask whatever you wish and it will be given to you” with my (and friends) experiences with unanswered prayers. This is from a commentary I really find a lot of value in—here’s what several of the authors say about this verse from John 15:

  196. Sarah Lagace says:

    I’ve struggled with the same thing Tammy. It’s hard to reconcile verses like “ ask whatever you wish and it will be given to you” with my (and friends) experiences with unanswered prayers. This is from a commentary I really find a lot of value in—here’s what several of the authors say about this verse from John 15;

  197. Kristina Lopes says:

    Hi @Tammy – Hopefully you’re able to see this (there’s no tagging function on SRT). I read John 15:16 and looked online for some resources. I found a great article by John Piper titled “I Choose You to Bear Fruit (you can search online if you want to read the full article) that dives into this verse. In a nutshell, it says: Everything that you try to do will come to nothing unless you do it through a conscious, abiding dependence on the enablement of Christ. Hence, the call for us to go to Him and do all things through Him. Hope this is helpful!

  198. Kristina Lopes says:

    Hi @Tammy – Hopefully you’re able to see this (there’s no tagging function on SRT). I read John 15:16 and looked online for some resources. I found a great article by John Piper titled “I Choose You to Bear Fruit (you can search online if you want to read the full article) that dives into this verse.

  199. Sarah Lagace says:

    I’m eager and thankful to be here! Hello my dear sisters in Christ!

  200. Tina says:

    CHURCHMOUSE, my heart sings dear friend.. Welcome back!
    How wonderful this next study is going to be, for having you in our midst.. the wisdom, the sharing, the love ..
    Looking forward, dear Sister..❤

  201. Lynne from Alabama says:

    Welcome to all the new “shes”! Welcome back CHURCHMOUSE! I am beyond thrilled that you are back with us! I have been praying for you every day. I always read my devotional very early and used to miss most of the comments. About three months ago I started checking the comments throughout the day and praying for each need. I feel that I know each of you personally and look forward to the day that we will all meet in person in Heaven with our precious Lord!

  202. Tammy Durn says:

    I’m a Christian and have been all my life. However, I will be honest, I haven’t had a strong RELATIONSHIP with God. I’m reading and searching and striving for a relationship for myself and as an example to my family. A couple of these verses confused me they were both similar but one stood out…John 15:16 I am unaware how to copy it here but basically it says if we ask anything of him he will grant it. I’m not a large believer in prosperity teachings. We all suffer and go through things and we are not all granted what we ask for, nor should we. I think God chooses to bless us for his Glory…. I feel like I’m missing something. Can someone help me?

  203. Natalie Hilton says:

    Loving like Jesus is hard when others don’t love like him too! I said a prayer that you would know how to love them like Jesus loves them and that your courage, humility, and gentleness would soften your heart and get you through this season with the peace of Jesus❤️

  204. Natalie Hilton says:

    Loving like Jesus is hard when others don’t love like him too! I said a prayer that you would know how to love them like Jesus loves them!

  205. Candace Smith says:

    I don’t post much, but this is such a timely study. Our church is searching for a new pastor and is struggling. I pray that I learn how to love and live more like Jesus.

  206. Lizzie T says:

    I’m with you Penny! Feeling the same way!

  207. Susie H says:

    Wow! Look at all our new friends! I continue to prayer for an uncontainable revival for the world – getting deeper in the word is a great place to start!

  208. Nancy Singleton says:

    Church Mouse, I was so afraid we had lost you to Covid, which in a sense we did, but not for good!! I’m thankful to have you back, dear one. I think the isolation has left many of us feeling the same things you’ve expressed. My husband and I are visiting new churches now to find a new “home”. Praying for you, dear one.

  209. Victoria Hodge says:

    ❤️

  210. Nancy Singleton says:

    Welcome to all the new community members! I don’t often comment, but SRT has been an amazing blessing to me throughout this crazy time of the pandemic. It has kept me from feeling so isolated & alone & has grown my faith through daily getting into God’s word. So thankful for you all, as we are in this earthly struggle together!

  211. Victoria Hodge says:

    I think you already got the hang of it. Good morning and welcome! Hope enjoyed your first study.

  212. Kathy says:

    This was so timely. I read it this morning before coming to school. One of my prayers for the day was for my high school students to know that they were loved. Of course, my second block had to test my resolve to be loving. I am fighting a continuous battle with cell phone usage in class and I refuse to back down. Two of my girls are now not speaking to me because I took up their phones. But, they will leave this room today knowing that they are loved!!! (Jesus, give me strength and patience!!! Don’t just take the wheel; take the entire vehicle.)

  213. Priscilla Mendoza says:

    Morning to all! This is my first reading and it has been filled with excitement, knowing that we all are here under one name our Dear Glorious Jesus Christ our King! I look forward to tomarrow as well. This teaching of love for one another is a journey we all have the privilege to share. All praise to Him above, who is faithful to guide us on this journey of love.

  214. Heather Stalnaker says:

    Churchmouse, you have been so very missed in this community!! We are so glad you are back with us, and I pray that as you reach out, you will feel connected to the body of Christ and know how valued and loved you are. ❤️

  215. Marie Riley says:

    This is timely in my life. Thank you.

  216. Ginajo says:

    Churchmouse, so happy to see you back. Your little nuggets of wisdom and your presence has been missed. To everyone who is new here welcome. So thankful for SRT family. Hope you all have a great and blessed day

  217. Lauren Moore says:

    Excited to read this over the next two weeks!

  218. CeeGee says:

    CHURH MOUSE – SO GLAD TO SEE YOU BACK, dear sister!!! You and your wisdom have been so missed, but I am THANKFUL you are okay and joining us here. You have been fervently covered in prayer and have remained in the heart of this community! Love you, sister!

  219. Heather Stalnaker says:

    Good morning! I am excited for these next couple of weeks to really learn and dig into how God calls us to relate to and live with “one another”. This is my 4th SRT study, but I haven’t commented much in the past. I’m so thankful for God’s Word and the way SRT helps us to really go deep into Scripture. Lord, show me what you want me to learn in these next 2 weeks!au your Spirit guide each one of us into your truth that You have for us.

  220. CeeGee says:

    “… the body of Christ has always been made up of believers who have no real reason for living in community together outside of the one reason that changes everything. Jesus brings each one of us mismatched pieces into something meticulously crafted and beautiful: His people, the body of Christ.”
    I love JESSICA LAMB’S intro! The quote here reminds me of something I know from my feeble attempt at quilting. It starts with ONE!!! Each piece that’s added increases the size, beauty, strength, and usefulness of that first piece (assuming that first piece represents Jesus/us). The colors, textures,sizes may be difficult to meld in places, but the completed piece is a work of art/heart that is a treasure to God. It certainly isn’t an easy task, but so rewarding.

    Welcome to all you first timers; so exciting to’meet’ y’all!

    TINA, praying for your full recovery! Continued prayers for all requests mentioned or unspoken.

    Here is where I struggle in this command to love: when I am seeking God’s wisdom, direction, and strength to obey His command and I don’t see the fruit, I get very discouraged. I sometimes feel the Holy Spirit is not working in me. Praise God it is not about how it feels to me; it’s about being faithful and obedient.

  221. Church Mouse says:

    This study is so timely for me. With the arrival of Covid I’ve been more isolated than any other time in my life. I’m immuno-compromised. I have only attended in – person worship twice in the past 20 months. I have not been contacted by anyone from our church. I took a sabbatical from SRT to regroup, refocus as I pondered and prayed about my situation. Personal and family health issues contributed to my withdrawal. I did not however withdraw from God. Nor did He withdraw from me. I’m so so grateful for the intimacy and growth that was gained. Although I am vaccinated, including the booster, our church has been reluctant to encourage and support covid mitigation. Therefore I’m still restricted to online services until our community is out of the high risk range. My family and I have been so blessed by what is available online. We sometimes ask ourselves if we will ever desire to engage in church fellowship again. Our absence has not been noticed, although I reached out to our worship pastor who answered my email once. I have a small group Bible study that has continued to faithfully meet weekly via Zoom. Yet I know God does not want me to neglect gathering together. Which, through this long ramble, is why this SRT study on One Another seems like a nudge from the Holy Spirit. So… I am back and anticipating that God will speak through the selected Scriptures, the devotions and your comments. Please pray that I keep my hands open and my spirit willing. Thank you.

  222. Foster Mama says:

    God willing, tomorrow is a meeting re: the “latest” re: the issue caused by a “difficult-to-love” person (whom I have shown SO much love to), who has the “upper hand” over me and what I think is best in a sensitive situation for children. May my Jesus, who has the ULTIMATE “upper hand” work mightily and give me (AND hubby — unified) what I need to act according to His will.

  223. Robin Tieperman says:

    Excited to start my first community study with you guys! How exactly does this page work? :)

  224. Foster Mama says:

    I had same reaction as RHONDA J…50 comments already at 10am :)!!

    Welcome to all those new to reading and commenting… such a perfect “first” reading plan.

    I’m praying for Everyone as well, health, pain, grieving, worrying,….I feel you all! TRACI, ERB, MARTHA, TINA, MELANIE, BRITTANY, KELLY,…truly everyone ❤️ (Forgive my lack of specificity, knowing I’m not praying for YOU any less.)

    I’m approaching this study from a slightly apprehensive angle which is difficult to explain. I am absolutely NO SAINT but, “loving with abandon” has gotten me into some tough / hurt / misunderstood spots…e.g. when someone was being a “jerk” but, I loved on them, giving the benefit of the doubt when perhaps I should have been truly seeing they intended to be hurtful (in ways others have told me I should never have tolerated). “Love” comes very ‘easily’ to me. I’m actually in a season of learning to be “wise as serpents, amd innocent as doves” and trying to figure out how to do that and continue to try to love LIKE JESUS….He IS LOVE but, also knew how to deal with others, answer wisely and sometimes harshly.

    Always a work in progress, a piece of clay in my Potter’s hands…may I malleable and surrender into being shaped as HE desires…

  225. Heide Bouter says:

    Love looks at the difficult-to-love person and quietly asks, “How would Jesus love this person?”

  226. Sharon, Jersey Girl says:

    “Owe no one anything except to love one another.” Romans 13:8. God is definitely working on my heart concerning loving one another…My husband is a pastor and we have been at our church for 28 years. Over those years we have seen people come & go. The last few years have been the hardest as we lost some families that have been a part of our church family for as long as we have been here. Many that left were grumblers and complainers and had talked behind our backs to other church families, stating things that just were not true. Some had been close friends. Yesterday I attended a baby shower at which 4 ladies were at that were among those who left and whom I had not seen since they left. For weeks leading up to the shower I prayed asking God to help me to have a right attitude, a forgiving heart, and peace about seeing them again. I guess what I was really asking was for God to help me love them, in spite of what happened. After all – doesn’t God love me, in spite of my sin? I was a little nervous about arriving as one of these ladies is the mother-in-law to the expectant mom, and one of the hosts…But God! But God with all of His wisdom, knowledge, power and presence made it all OK. There was only slight awkwardness at arrival time and I actually had decent conversations with them. God is so gracious! I am thankful that I went, and that I engaged in conversation, by God’s grace He will (and is in the process) of helping me to love them – after all, He does command it!
    Prayers are appreciated as I work through the process.

    Blessings to you all and a warm welcome to all the new SRT sisters!

  227. K D says:

    I love the reminder in the podcast that between these two passages is John 14 – where the Holy Spirit is promised. It is not possible for us to love one another in this way without the Holy Spirit working in and through us. So often I try to love from a place of my own effort – which is a guarantee for failure. My prayer for us today – may we grow to love one another depending on the strength of the Holy Spirit, not our own abilities.

  228. Donna Wolcott says:

    Welcome to all the new She’s! Idalee I hope you have a church that can help you during this time in your life. Also maybe look for small ways to connect with community such as helping at a foodbank. I will look to find ways to love better and be kinder, there is a lot of room for growth. Have a blessed day ladies and thank you for your sharing daily. Lifting up prayer concerns.

  229. Rhonda J. says:

    @ Madeline, To answer your question—Just wait and see!! It will amaze you how God will transcend through you and change you!! But it doesn’t happen overnight, and usually aren’t even aware of it in a big way! (sometimes it is in a big way thougj1). I recommend journaling your feeling, thoughts and prayers. God has worked on me as I battle my not-so-nice traits of control, patience, selfishness. I am still working on my relationship with my husband to be more kind and respectful, and speak in love at all times.

  230. Rhonda J. says:

    Wow, 42 comments thus far this morning! I wondered what was happening! lol. But lots of new members, yay!! Welcome to all! God is working and moving in a time so needed!! To love one another- shouldn’t be that hard right?! I think we all need a reminder of how this is done. I am still in awe after coming off the Acts study! That just really evoked such aspiration in me to DO better. Paul’s demonstration, and how God worked in him was so amazing!

    Thank you Kelly for the prayer request follow-through! My dad still has pneumonia and doesn’t feel well. I just pray that God gives him some comfort and peace

    Traci Gender, I hope we hear an update on Tanner from you. I am so worried about him.

    Remember we are also working on sharing Jesus with anyone and everyone, so share SRT on your social media and let’s keep bringing in even more friends to our community here! I looked back on advent last year, the first day, and there were 330 comments! Wow! Let’s get up to that again! I am excited to listen to the podcast for the week as well!

  231. Tiffany C says:

    John 15:16 “Jesus chose us.”
    Jesus chose to love us. Works of love are conscious actions. As Jesus died on the cross for us, teaches us, leads us, this is by His love for us. By His love for us and others, let us do unto others as Jesus has done for us. May we do works of His love. My love is lacking but God’s love is immense and limitless. God, help me to abide in you to bear your fruit. Without you, I cannot bear fruit, cannot bear good works, cannot love others as I should.

    Blessings, peace, mercy, and grace to all She’s and He’s here today.

  232. Madeleine says:

    I’m new here! And echoing a few others: struggling to love in this season—resentment, anger, trying to control and manipulate are all things I’ve been realizing that I do :( So how do I let Christ bear fruit in me?

  233. Valerie Maggard says:

    I struggle the most with praying for my enemies.

  234. Maura says:

    That the One who loves us with such sacrificial and amazing love calls us to such love is such joy. Indeed Kristine, raising the bar as we don’t always love ourselves well, but if we can love like Jesus, Amen to that. Praying for the requests here for new friends in new communities, in lonliness, God will meet you there, may you feel His presence as you reach out to others. Melanie, praying for your healing and strength, heart and body dear sister. Lauren, praying for you too, strength as you seek to love your family member. He strengthens us as we are obedient. Such Love our God has and works in and through us.

  235. Valerie Maggard says:

    First time reading the community plan. I lead an extremely busy life and have to carve out time slots for every9. I’m looking forward to this study because I struggle the most with lo

  236. Aimee D-R says:

    Father help me to see others with Your eyes and love them with Your heart. In Jesus loving name, Amen

  237. Alexandria Robinson says:

    Good morning! I’m excited for the study for a two reasons 1. This is a reminder to love my very difficult coworker and 2. Going into the holiday season with my husband’s tough family. Already I was hit with that “Just as…” in John 13:34 meaning to love others enough to lay down your life. I’m so far away from showing that type of love. It’s easy to think you’re a “nice person” but the Bible calls us to a higher standard above the world’s baseline! Ready to dig into this one with you ladies!

  238. NanaK says:

    Another great start to our study! In response to our reading today, I summarized three main things I can do :
    1. Look for the good in fellow believers
    2. Choose Joy over negativity
    3. Seek to glorify GOD through all that I think, say, and do.
    Bottom line: Love like JESUS!
    Have a blessed Monday Sisters!

  239. Debra Voigt says:

    I really needed this today! Thank you~

  240. Taylor says:

    Welcome to all the new ladies!! This is the community I have stayed most connected with over the last few years with moving for grad school and my job so I have been VERY blessed by all the women here who pour into one another and pray for one another! My advice that someone posted on here awhile back is the best way to stay involved is to share your thoughts in the comments! Even if it doesn’t feel eloquent or isn’t very long, commenting helps establish a sense of accountability! I’m so excited for this study :)

    Over the last few years the Lord has put it on my heart to get more involved in Christian community, especially with young adults like myself. Now that I’ve been back in my hometown for my first job I decided to join a women’s group and a young adult group at my church. However, the busyness of life stopped me from going to those groups over the last 2 months. Rather than wallowing in guilt over being a bad group member, I’m trying to look for ways maybe this was a “not yet” from the Lord. He knows my desire for community and I trust He will provide it in His perfect timing! I hope everyone has a blessed Monday!

  241. Glenys says:

    First time here as well, and I’m also in a season of life that’s unfamiliar. Just moved to a new city far from family and friends. May God’s presence help you in those lonely times.

  242. Idalee says:

    This is my first study with she reads truth! Community is hard for me right now. My husband works full time. My 22 year old daughter lives with us and she works full time and goes to college full time. I am alone most of the time. I live in a very small community and I do not work outside the home so I have lost touch with so many. I am in a season of my life that is unfamiliar to me.

  243. Lisa Z says:

    I too am very excited for this study! In this season, I want to devote this study to learning to love my family with His love, especially my husband. Lord, empower me with Your love as mine is so tasteless by comparison. My love looks like control sometimes and fear other times. Guide me to love like You, ever-lasting, ever sacrificing. Help me give strength to this community and draw strength from this community of marvelous women! Love y’all and looking forward to walking through this study with you!

  244. Bezait Gebre says:

    ❤️

  245. SarahJoy says:

    So much activity on our first day! And so many new people! Welcome!!

    KELLY – thank you for re-sharing that list. So many requests. Saying prayers for each one.

    For me community looks different for different reasons and seasons. I have been a part of a moms group for almost ten years, and my schedule now gets set around that time. At first I was the young overwhelmed mom gleaning potty training wisdom and encouragement for loving my girls. Now I am the older overwhelmed mom sharing wisdom of the younger years and remembering to enjoy the years as they fly. Christian community in its ideal state is loving, sharing, teaching, learning, laughing, crying. The participants have changed over the years, but this group has continued to serve women for 30+ years.

    I’m so blessed that this space feels like one of my communities where women meet to share their joys and sorrows as we read truth. Thanks “She’s!” ❤️

  246. Lauren says:

    How timely is this study for me! I have a family member who I am struggling to love right now. There, I said it and I’m sure I’m not the only one who deals with difficult family members. Not just struggling to love but feeling the ugliness of anger and resentment way too often toward them. This person is not easy to be in relationship with, but as a believer I know that is beside the point. My hope and prayer is this study will lead me to a better heart, a little more grace and a lot more like Jesus!

  247. Pamela Aileen says:

    I have a childhood church member also in Madrid as a missionary!! You two ladies are there for a reason and for “one another”.

  248. Penny Courtney says:

    I’ve been a community reader but not much of a participant. This study lands in a season of my life where I’m longing to make friends. I realize that I needs friends now more than ever. Maybe I am just now understanding how much I have needed them all along, but just refused to reach out.
    Either way. God has brought this study at the perfect time. No real surprise there, He always seems to work things out perfectly.

  249. Melanie says:

    I loved the Bible reading this am. Loving is hard and messy at times. It’s hard to love well when we have been hurt. But God. He loves us, forgives us, and continues to want us no matter what. It is a humbling to know all of these facts as we forget His goodness and kindnesses all to often. Lately it is hard to love certain people so this study is at the perfect time. My father in law is doing well. He has recovered from Covid and is doing well with the transplant. My recovery from surgery has been very slow and painful. Please continue to pray for strength and rest

  250. Kelly says:

    Tracy Snell – happy you will be joining us!

    For those who didn’t check in over the weekend

    BRITTANY CARBONE – Praying for you, your husband, and little one. What’s her name?

    RHONDA J – how is your dad doing?

    CALLIE PARKER – is your husband still away in boot camp?

    ELAINE MORGAN – how are Stacy and David?

    AG – how is your grandma?

    ASH H – has your sis-in-law found a new job?

    LAUREN – did the MRI help diagnose your pain?

    MELANIE – how is your F-I-L doing?

    ANGIE – how are things going with the young gals in your Bible study, especially your niece?

    TRACI – continuing to pray for Tanner’s and your peace through this storm.

    LEXI B – how are your classes going?

    K SWENSON – were you able to start a new program to help your PTSD?

  251. Pam Seipp says:

    Praise God for this community of women in the Word. May we encourage ourselves and others with the new command: Love one another!

  252. Tracy Snell says:

    I see I’m not the only newbie in the group! So excited to start my first community plan! I pray we will be transformed and withstand the pruning God must do in order for us to bear much fruit. May He help us to see others through Spirit eyes.

  253. Barbara Isabell says:

    ❤️❤️

  254. Sara Moore says:

    So excited for this study. I haven’t been in Bible study like I want to be the past several months. Excited to start this study and prepare for Advent. Thankful for the reminder to love. Love is very absent in most of our world today.

  255. ERB says:

    LOVED the title on the Romans scripture: “Love, Our Primary Duty” SOOO Good!!!

    But what STOOD OUT to me MOST was John 15:16 “You did not choose Me, but I chose you.” ❤️ Wow. An important reminder!!

    We are NOTHING without God. May we always desire to be pruned and to bear fruit so that others may recognize God and His Amazing, All-encompassing, Undeniable, Unconditional LOVE!!!

  256. Tara Beatty says:

    I love community and the peace and joy it brings me each time I am with fellow believers. I am truly looking forward to this study and seeing what God has commanded of us as a one. Praying for all sisters in Christ as we begin this study. Father, help me and us learn to love one another well; to love more and more like You and to reflect Your love to a lost and hurting world. In Jesus Name, Amen.

  257. Kristine Loughman says:

    If the Golden Rule is “Love your neighbor as yourself” then my pastor says the Platinum Rule is “Love others as I (Jesus) have loved you.” Talk about raising the bar.

  258. Judy L says:

    Welcome, Marilyn! ❤

  259. Elaine Morgan says:

    Welcome to SRT Marilyn! We are so glad to have you join us!! This is an awesome group of women who love the Lord and each other. It’s a great example of today’s lesson in action!

  260. Rachel Romero says:

    I’m so thankful for the She Reads Truth community! I love today’s reading, the reminder that we are called to love one another is so vital for me in my current season.

  261. Angie says:

    Welcome to new SRT ladies, you are right in time for a lot of sharing in the love of Christ in community…seems kind of perfect. :)
    The One who loved to the point of leaving Heaven and becoming like us, is asking us to reach out now in that same kind of love. As the HRT states that can make my knees buckle at the weight of such a calling, while at the same time strengthen me with the depth of the Savior’s love. We are blessed ladies. May we be a blessing and, may all the glory be given to our God.

  262. Kelly Dodson says:

    Praise God for displaying what loving one other should look like. We are to love as He loves us. Sounds so simple, but I am reminded of how hard it actually is. God, thank you for this study. May we all grow from learning more of your Word.

  263. Kelly says:

    Amber deArmas – Welcome too!

  264. Kelly says:

    Marilyn Conley – Welcome!

    May we all see with fresh eyes the importance of our call to respond to Jesus’ love for us by loving others in the same way.

    Have a great day!

  265. SEARCHING says:

    Welcome to all of our new SRT sisters!

    It’s painful to think about the times that I haven’t shown any “love for one another” and need to keep these words in mind.

    POPPY – praying the Lord will prepare Amy’s and Rosie’s hearts to turn to Him.

    TINA – praying for your COVID recovery.

  266. Amber deArmas says:

    First time I’m reading the community plan! I’m excited to see what the Lord has for each of us in the next two weeks before beginning advent :)
    This morning I’m really meditating in “by this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another”

  267. Amber deArmas says:

    First time I’m reading the community plan! I’m excited to see what the Lord has for each of us in the next two weeks before beginning advent :)

  268. Marilyn Conley says:

    I’m new to she reads truth and I’m loving it !!!
    I’ve tried 1 year Bible plans and failed miserably after starting well but I feel between the awesome Podcast ( that are so exciting ) and the way these readings are formatted that God has truly led me to find this exciting group of women reading together so that I may grow and gain so many new insights into Gods Word

  269. Marilyn Conley says:

    I’m new to she reads truth and I’m loving it !!!

  270. Tina says:

    So looking forward to this reading plan..
    My thinking has for a long time been..
    It is only in loving one another as He has and does love us, that love will grow in our small world, but then extending to others, because, having known an extended hand in love, it may just be easy to show another..

    See you tomorrow sisters.. every blessing wrapped in love and hugs❤

  271. Louise Wells says:

    So timely for me to read. Praying that we would love others as Jesus showed us.

  272. Maiya K says:

    I am looking forward to these next 2 weeks with this new study. I am currently a missionary with YWAM Madrid, and my community is a very strong healthy community within our YWAM base. However, as we are working to reach others, in our local community, for Christ, I think this is important for them to see how we love each other inside of our community as well.

    Ufff…that was quite a bit of “community” use. I hope my point got accross…hehe.

    Have a blessed day ladies

  273. Ashley Spragins says:

    ❤️

  274. Oluseye Ashiru says:

    I love this new study and it’s so timely for me as I am leading our community on a study on friendships. I am looking forward to learning from each person here as we all share together. A new command – just to love. Amen to that!