Day 12


Genesis 30:1-24, Genesis 35:16-20, Psalm 98:1-3, Hebrews 4:16

BY Rebecca Faires

Laban really gave his daughters a raw deal. When he tricked Jacob into marrying Leah, he sentenced both of his girls to one truly heartbreaking marriage. Instead of enjoying sweet accord between husband and wife, both women are crowded into a bitter, vengeful squeeze of marital misery. One wife is just the right number of wives, but one man, two sisters, and their maidservants to boot is a cramped relationship for sure. Indeed, the normal strains of marriage are quite enough without having to engage in a fertility contest with your own sister. A fertility contest that Rachel was losing—the stats were 10 to 0 against Rachel before Joseph was finally born.

Once a month, my husband goes out for an evening with his friends to discuss literature. But by the time he gets home at 10pm I’ve had quite enough of sharing him with others. Marriage is a tight circle of two. Rachel and Leah were both denied the sweet intimacy that can only exist when two people are alone in a marriage. They likely both felt forgotten by both their husband and by God. And forgotten is a feeling that we can all identify with. People will absolutely forget us. Terrible marriages, absent parents, distracted friends, and even children can pass over us as they forge ahead in life.

But there is One who does not forget. God remembers His people. God remembered Rachel (Genesis 20:22). And in Scripture, when it says that God “remembers” someone, it means that He is going to intervene and help. When God remembers, He takes action (Genesis 9:15, 19:29, 30:22; Exodus 2:24, 32:13; Psalms 25:6–7, 74:2). Even though Rachel seems to only be asking Jacob for help, God remembers Rachel. He remembers, He listens, and He opens her womb (Genesis 30:1,22).

In the weirdest and most uncomfortable situations—in the deepest, saddest days—God remembers and listens. It goes without saying that His action may not be what we are asking for or what we think the situation requires, but in His sovereignty, He listens and remembers His people.

Rachel died in childbirth when Benjamin was born. She fought with Leah for her entire married life, and she never got to enjoy watching her own sons grow up. She didn’t get to grow old with the man she loved. It was Leah’s son, Judah, who was in the line of Christ. Rachel’s life probably did not turn out at all like she had hoped. But she was remembered by God.

Life isn’t about us and what we are doing. It is easy to forget that just because things have not gone as we hoped, that does not mean that we are forgotten or abandoned. Indeed, God builds His kingdom even amidst our dashed expectations.

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38 thoughts on "Rachel"

  1. Karen Hunter says:

    God remembered Rachel (Gen 30:22) and took action. Deuteronomy 31:6 (NIV)
    “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

    I am never forgotten.

  2. Amber Trimble says:

    Oh God, please remember me!!!

  3. Allison Grayson says:

    I struggled reading this. I grimaced as their decisions got worse and worse and thought where is God in all of this dysfunction? Is He okay with this behavior? But it dawned on me. Y’all, we see dysfunction like this everyday. Heck, we are entertained by it in the shows we watch, books we read, and stories we hear. My take away is… we make the mess. We convolute. We complicate and dig ourselves in the biggest, messiest holes imaginable. BUT GOD. God redeems. Forgives. Uses our huge, tangled up messes. And better than that – He STILL brings forth His will. Nothing we do can change His plans, His will, His story. Praise God!!! Because we make some big messes! If Jesus’ story had to come from a perfect bloodline, a stellar past, we would still be waiting for Him to be born! So today, even though I struggled through that reading, I gleaned more than I thought!

  4. Emily Bishop says:

    My heart always aches for these women when I study this passage. As the author mentioned, I too have a difficult time sharing my husbands attention with others for even an evening. I cannot imagine the lifelong pain between these sisters competent for a husbands attention, knowing they will never have his whole heart. But, it is also so comforting to read that even when we are so deep in our pain that we can’t see anything else—God sees us. God hears us. God loves us.

  5. Damia Chambers says:

    beautifully written

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